The Silent Strength of Balarama: Why He Chose Neutrality in the Mahabharata War - Love, Loyalty and the Path Not Taken After the thirteen years of exile and the wedding of Abhimanyu to Uttara, the Pandavas and their allies gathered at Upaplavya to deliberate on reclaiming their rightful kingdom. Krishna and Balarama, sons of Vasudeva, were both present at this council. It was here that Balarama first voiced his opinion, reminding everyone that Yudhishthira himself had erred by participating in the game of dice that led to the Pandavas losing everything. While the assembly largely sided against Duryodhana, Balarama urged restraint and tried to see merit in reconciliation rather than war. Duryodhana's Visit and Balarama's Explanation In the Udyoga Parva, when Duryodhana approached Balarama seeking his support, Balarama gave a deeply personal explanation for his position. He reminded Duryodhana that at Abhimanyu's wedding, he had tried to restrain Krishna for Duryodhana...